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Understanding...
I’ve caught myself saying “I understand” more times than I can count, even when I don’t fully grasp what’s going on.

Ryan Burbank
Mar 2, 20243 min read


When Days Melt Down...
When your autistic child has a meltdown on day you had perfectly set up to meet their needs, it can feel like you have failed.

Ryan Burbank
Feb 25, 20242 min read


Teasing Troubles...
I’ve always found it challenging to navigate teasing because it often seems like a social ritual designed to trip me up and not fun.

Ryan Burbank
Feb 24, 20243 min read


Critical Cowards...
Everything has become so painfully neutral. It’s as if critics have decided that it’s better to play it safe than to risk hurting feelings.

Ryan Burbank
Feb 22, 20243 min read


Speak Up...
Adopting a direct approach has the potential to transform my interactions, not just make them smoother.

Ryan Burbank
Feb 18, 20243 min read


Sorry...
n. For most of my life, apologizing felt like a challenge I couldn’t quite master. But a few years ago, something shifted

Ryan Burbank
Feb 17, 20243 min read


Leave a message at the tone...
I’ve got a confession to make: I don’t like cell phones. In a world where people are practically glued to their screens

Ryan Burbank
Feb 11, 20243 min read


A Bit Quirky...
Here are eight quirks of mine that you might misunderstand, but trust me, they all have a reason behind them.

Ryan Burbank
Feb 10, 20242 min read


Perception vs. Reality...
t’s a common experience among those of us on the autism spectrum, where emotional expression doesn’t always align with emotional reality.

Ryan Burbank
Feb 4, 20243 min read


Why I Love Libraries, Paper, and the Feel of a Book in My Hands
Why I Love Libraries, Paper, and the Feel of a Book in My Hands There’s something about stepping into a library or holding a physical...

Ryan Burbank
Feb 3, 20243 min read


Is Never Better Than Late?
Delayed Emotional Processing. Sounds like something out of a movie about robots or time travel, right? It ’s complex, sometimes...

Ryan Burbank
Jan 28, 20243 min read


Much Ado About To Do's
Household chores, autonomous initiative and the Autistic brain's struggle to identify one task to do out of many.

Ryan Burbank
Jan 21, 20242 min read


Denial aint just a river...
Gaslighting is a nasty thing when others do it to you. But what happens when you start doing it to yourself?

Ryan Burbank
Jan 14, 20243 min read


Hangin' Out...
I say "No, thank you" far more than "Yes, please" when it comes to social engagements, but it’s more complicated than just showing up.

Ryan Burbank
Jan 7, 20242 min read


One Day More...
Rant: New Year’s Eve is one of those holidays that I just can’t get behind.I’m counting down the minutes until it’s over.

Ryan Burbank
Dec 31, 20233 min read
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